A Rare Gem

Hey crazy cats, I hope everyone's week has started off on the right note. Today, I'm just going to jump right into my entry. It's kind of like standing under the shower while the water is still cold. so, let's get started.
 What is a friend? Is it someone you know at work? Is it someone you have a crush on? Is it someone who gives you money? Is the value of friendships measured on the amount of friends you have on Facebook? Or is it the "fame" you have by how many people follow you on Twitter. How many of us have friends who will literally walk through hell with you, just to make sure you come out fine?
 A friend is a person who we care about, love, admire, share our pain and triumphs, who gives you a hand when you're down and who is there to share a laugh. They have the strength to tell us when we make a mistake. They help us to achieve more. They cry when we cry. They are those that we wish we were kin.
 A friend will not back stab you or take advantage of you. They are there at whatever hour when you need an ear. A friend is there to give you strength when you need it. They are there to let you know your fly is down. A friend listens and not judges.
 So my question I ask is who fits this description in your life? Many of you will say God. Good on you! religion is very good. Others will say family. Very well. Family is very good too. However, think really hard. Is there someone besides God and family who fits this description? Does a name immediately pop in your head or does it take forever to think of someone?
 It's not an easy task to really find out who your friends are. I say if you have a friend...a true friend, cherish them! They are very hard to come by. Lately, friendships are based on how or what services can be provided.
 As I said, these little gifts from heaven should be appreciated. For those of you who are married, make sure your spouse is your best friend. Trust me, it's a title they would love to hear come from your lips. They are not a ball and chain.
 Well, if you're expecting a whimsical ending, well you're out of luck. I just wanted to put a little thought in your head as we start off this week. To all my friends, thank you for being in my life. Without you, I'd be really empty and boring.... well, just empty. Keep safe and dream big!